**Broken | Terrified | Sad | Lonely | Hurt | Upset | Alone | Depressed | Suicidal | Angry | Hateful | Breaking down | Screaming | Empty | Dead | Nothing | Crying | Shouting | Giving up | Hiding | Wearing a mask | Cutting | Horrible | Stressed | Down | Hollow | Worthless | Messed up | Misunderstood | Frightened | Incapable | Distressed | Inferior | Lost | Cynical |Pathetic | Ashamed | Bitter | Forced | Uneasy | Tense | Dominated | Pessimistic | Distrustful | Tearful | Crushed | Offended | Aching | Wronged | Timid | Wary | Victimized | Tortured | Pained | Lifeless | Cold | Dull | Nervous | Scared | Suspicious | Alienated | Numb | Stressed | Bruised**
I AM FINE!
*insert fake smile here*
SO, HOW ARE YOU?
Toodles!
~A♥~
What happened, violet?
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Nothing, dude.Nothing at all. It’s just the generic response of people in all damn situations,don’t you think?
Unless someone is a total attention-whore or a little over-dramatic shit.Otherwise, this is how they respond.*sighs*
They don’t wanna hurt people, so they hurt themselves, instead.-.-
People need to get real and face their problems honestly.Otherwise it would damage them to an extent which would be near impossible to recover from.
Wow!Some rant huh?
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Nope. This is more of a sensible opinion than a rant. You’re right. But then again, do you think the people REALLY want to know how you are when they greet you?
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If they don’t want to know,they shouldn’t pose a rhetorical question.*fuming*
This is something people use for small talk,yeah?They need to stop.This isn’t daily-freaking-soap,for god’s sake!No points/fans for you being the small talk pro.
In States,people ask this in passing,like stranger to stranger and they don’t even stop to listen the answer!For them,it’s a “Hey”.But not here.If you asked the question,brace yourself for the answer,however bad.-.-
Anyway,the main issue is with the person the question is asked from.They need to brace themselves for the truth of THEIR lives.
God!I don’t even know why I am so furious about this!It’s not like I am one of those.I tell it how it is.Whether someone wants to hear or not.:/
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Hahaha, yeah. You sound SO mad. Cool down.
I think even people in India have started using “How are you” as a “hey”.
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Hahaha you know what?I feel better now.After ranting in 2 long comments,I actually feel better.:D
And replying to you like you’re the reason for this all.^*sheepish smile*
And that they have.:|
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Hahah no worries! I’ve been a punch bag a lot of times. 😛
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Oh my god!Did you feel that way?!I am so sorry.I didn’t mean it that way.
Even that infuriates me.People treating others like punching bag.I feel like breaking all their teeth.Now that I come to think of it, I do it too.
*Grumbles to self*Bad,A.Very bad.
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Hahahah, no, don’t take it literally. I was joking. There are quite a lot of things that annoy you, huh? 😛
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Yes!And very easily,too.I get irritated very very easily.Not all the time,but when I don’t want people trying to shove their shit on my head,I tell them to shove it you-know-where.
Temper tantrums. 😛
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Hahaha, yup, totally understandable! 😛 😀
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I am so glad you understand,girl. :D:P
I wanna give you a nickname.I think we are past that,don’t you think?We talk almost regularly here.
What should I call you? *serious contemplation*
Would Ada do? 😛
You’re free to point it out if it sucks.I just wrote the first thing that jumped at me from your name.
Or suggest something you prefer to be called.:D
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Hahahah, Ada? Nope. Or maybe yes. Yes. It sounds cute. What else do you have in mind? 😛
I like to have choices.. 😛
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I do,too.:D
Does “Shu” sound kinda gross to you,too?*snorts*
Shubh? Nah people must call you that,already.:/
S? Uncreative like hell-.-
Ugh!I dunno.I suck at naming.Or nicknaming, to be exact.*exasperated*
You suggest a few,why don’t you?
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Shubs? Many people call me that and it’s catchy. You can alternate between Ada and Shubs! I like Ada! Or you can call me Shooby Doo! One of my blogger friend Mark calls me that! 😀
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If you’re fine with Ada,I am gonna go with it.Nobody calls you that,do they?I like to think I am unique. 😛
I like Shubs, too by the way.I might call you that,too,from time to time.:D
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Okay! Sounds cool! 😀
And what should I call you? I like calling you violet, but I guess many others call you that!
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Hmmm,a handful, yeah.You can call me “Vi” if you want.Nobody calls me that.:D
Or suggest something else if you want.I don’t mind.
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I’m gonna call you violet! I like voilet, even though many call people call you voilet. And anyway my TONE of calling you voilet will be different from others! 😉
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Hahahahahahahaha
That sounds good.*_*
Violet it is.:D
P.S.:Not all that many people call me violet.Only a couple.Some stick to V,some to WV or W or wandering violet.And yes.Many call me A.That’s the first letter of my name,ofcourse.:P
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Yeah!! I’ll alternate between A and voilet! Or even Vi!
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Whatever you want,Ada.:P
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Hahah. I like it.
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I am glad you do.:D
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I understand.. 😔😔
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You do, right?
Isn’t this infuriating?
It infuriates me,I mean.Like, a lot.Like kicking-the-person-you-know-where mad.:|
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Absolutely yes!!! It’s just taken away the emotion & feeling from a genuine how are you?? Things seem to get more artificial by the passing day..
Wen no one cares.. Why ask?? Why do it??
It’s a fad that needs to breathe its last..
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Exactly my feelings! Shut your face and go to hell if you don’t care.Don’t pretend, for god’s sake!
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True you.. True you!!!
Psycho: How are you?
Me: * thinking and mumbling what to reciprocate* Well..,
Psycho: Did you check out the new coffee shop down the block??
Me: No I didn’t… * *like the psycho cares for my reply,nor would I feel fine telling it to you**
Psycho: aaahh!! It’s snazzy.. You know me and my… * I’m not interested, mind on something else*
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Oh my god!The internal babbling doesn’t get better expressed than this.
I feel like strangling such little shits, I tell you. Who the hell needs you to ask them any damn thing Huh?
Go mind your own damn business. *fumes*
And the anger returns again.
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Strangle em for me too.. 😖😖😖
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Sure will.After I kick their butt.-.-
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Bwahahahahaha.. Bettyboo buttkins,better hold em tight.. Someone’s gonna get whipped real bad..
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Hahahahahahha that they are.*giving the wall the stink eye while imagining just that*
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Krappy SOCIAL MEDIA is filled with ppl faking themselves and you..
You really think their lives are as happy as they portray?? Ummm.. I bet not!!
Who the hell puts up a status ” Got Jacked today,outta my Job and I’m on the edge of being bankrupt??”
Well,not many… All of em trying to prove how their lives are better than yours.. 😔😔😔
I don’t want any1 to ask me how I am,if they don’t care.. I’m fighting my own battles behind that mac foundation and rimmel eyeshadows.. 😔
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Aww it got kinda personal there.:|
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Yup.. Nobody would wanna tell the bad stuff happening would they?? Nobody wants to tell if they hurt someone,nobody wants to tell if they are in a rut, nobody wants to tell if they are going mad with no me time..
They just wanna go ahead acting like things are just soo fine with em..
I’ve got a so called friend and I told her how irritating my schedules are and how I hate coordinating with the juniors and I’m roused by frantic calls of my subordinates asking me if this is right or that.. You know like s typical rant..
And she just said.. ” Awwwwhh.. Honey… I feel you!!”
And the very next moment.. She starts off with how blessed she feels being a full time stay at home mom and how working moms can never feel that happiness..
I’m like.. ” Excuse me?? Is that directed at me??”
Kick me in the mouth for telling you anything!! By the way.. That started with the ” how are you?” 😒😒
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Oh gawd!Did she really say that?!How about I start with her in that kicking the butt and strangling plan we have going?*fumes*
I feel infuriated on your behalf right now.My mumma is a working mother and she is the best one outta there.And I think her being a working mother is what has shaped our relationship to be that awesome.I have the most wonderful mother, I tell you.😄
I think I should do a post about it sometime.:/
So,stop.You see where I am going with this,don’t you? You’re gonna be just fine.Let her rot in hell if she’s not all that awesome friend she always seemed to be before this.*winks*
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Awwwwhh love.. That’s so precious of you!! Hugs and super hugs!!
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*tacklehug and super tacklehug back* 😀
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Wearing my face. Happy face. So glad I’m not the only one.
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Ofcourse you’re not.Numerous people,believe me.
I am so sick of this!
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As am I. And nothing helps.
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No, it doesn’t.
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Reblogged this on lilrant and commented:
Wake up in the morning, put on my face – the one that’s gonna take me through another day.
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Thank you so much for the reblog. 🙂
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It needs more reblogging.
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That it kinda does. People need to get their heads out of you-know-where.
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Lol seems some new character from some new novel in here !!
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Hahahahahahahaha
my first laugh since I thought of this.
Otherwise, almost all my comments start with hahaha generally.:P
Not today. -.-
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Damm u remind me of those mythological rakshas ppl who start every sentence with a “hahahahaha” u sure u not one of them right 😝
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Hahahaha I am pretty sure I am not.:P
I wouldn’t have minded their super strength in kicking the butt of jerks,though.*serious contemplating while nodding the head with a serious expression*
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Do u actually do all the expressions in between those asterisks lol I wonder at times I mean had u done that in front of me I surely would have laughed out loud :p
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Ofcourse I do that!Why would I pretend to be anything else on a platform where people don’t even know my name,when I don’t do that in real life?I mean, had you been present in front of me you would actually see me laughing when I say hahahaha or whatever.
I do express my genuine expression in writing here.:D
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm 👌👍👏👏👏👏 dhanya prabhu lage raho
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Hahaha sure thing.:P
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Try finding words that are empowering. This post is powerful but worrisome.
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That needs to be done.ASAP.*Nods*
Thank you so much for the comment.:)
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I too get sucked into the downward spiral of negative thoughts.. It’s a powerful force. I’m going through it now to be totally honest. The only way up and out is to stop the crippling words from forming by intentionally forming positive ones instead. When you’re sad you can try the word Reflective… When you’re hurt try the word human.
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Oh mayen.That sounds challenging.And sad as hell.:|
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Would you be willing to write another post with each word replaced by an empowering one?
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Sure.I will try my best,Jo.:)
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I M SCREAMING! !
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Glad you could accept that. 🙂
Not glad glad because you’re Screaming, but because you accept you are.
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Yeah my state of mind was this :@
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Oh mayen.I am really sorry,Zee.Hope you’re better now.*half smile*
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I’m cool 😎 (no fake smiley)
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Good to hear. 😀
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I m screaming! !😢😢😢
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Hey nice though but, all the expressions and feelings are more kinda pessimistic feeling… Where is Happy, Joyful etc..
I think you liked the movie “Insideout” so much that you forgot the ” joy” in that movie…😜😜😜
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That’s how it was supposed to be,Abhijit. People don’t need to lie when they are happy,joyful or whatever. They lie when they aren’t all that good.When they aren’t fine,they say they are.:/
That’s what this was about.
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Wow… Pretty nice logic actually.. Very true, yes people pretend to be happy when they are not. Right…😳😳
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Hmm,glad you understand. 🙂
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Glad you explained…😜😜
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Haha
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😄😄
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I totes agree with you. Instead of asking how are you I now ask what’s up? Most of the times I get a similar cookie cutter response *cough same old same old cough* but at least they don’t have to pretend nothing emotionally is going on.
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That’s good to hear.Atleast,something is better than nothing, yeah?
And I am glad you agree.:)
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Pretty confused.. I have never said I am not fine to anyone. So here as there is no need to say ( *just type*) , so I was feeling low before reading this, but now I am feeling somewhat better. Haha.. 🙂
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Good to know you could relate.:)
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Thank you so much for the reblog. 🙂
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Should I copy paste whole of your post here in comment. Bcz it’s my mood always. 😀
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Haha
No,I get what you are trying to say without that trying step.:P
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😛
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Reblogged this on V2tmobile's Blog.
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Thank you so much for the reblog. 🙂
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Something
*here you go! Yay!*
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Hahahahahahaha
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🙂
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That’s interestingly thoughtful! 😀
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Why,thank you. 😀
I saw something similar somewhere.Then I just had to do this.:)
You know that feeling ,sometimes you just feel compelled to do stuff?That’s what I am talking about.If you’ll see the previous comments you will realise how furious I was when I posted this.Now I feel better,ofcourse.
Woah some comment it is.
You must be regretting the moment you decided to comment.*sheepish smile*
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I know the feeling! And no, I am not regretting! And wow, about you, feeling better
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Haha thank you so much, then.:D
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*smirks*
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*rolls her eyes,then grins*
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*perplexes, thinking if violet a she or he?*
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Hahahaha read my previous comment again,will you?*sly grin*
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Read without success *sighs*
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Though *she’s a she*
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Isn’t she? 😉
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*Snorts*Ofcourse she’s a she.Doesn’t the “she” jump at you from Violet?
Who the hell is called Violet and is a male,dude?:P
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Oopsie!Do you know a male “Violet”?*wide eyes*
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There’s always possibility for anything *winks*
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Hahahaha okaay,as you say.:P
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Thank you so much for the reblog. 🙂
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I am delighted 😉
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That’s awesome to hear. 😀
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Hey you should focus on positive thing instead of, this negativity. This will not be lead you to anywhere dear. Hope you understand 🙂
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Hey,thank you so much for your comment.:)
But this is not about me.I am talking about people’s response in general.Whatever they are feeling, “I am fine” is the response.
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Okay, sorry. My mistake. I misunderstood this.
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No worries.:)
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🙂
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But I am just trying to say that there is only negative and sad words. It’s not necessary that everybody feels only in this way. Where is the joyful and happy feelings? You should’ve wrote that, too. That’s it.
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But see,the thing is,people don’t generally hide the happy feelings.They exaggerate those,to be honest.
What they feel they should hide are the negative or unwelcome feelings.
You never find someone who is feeling great say,I am fine.They will be like, I am awesome, dude.
But you always find someone who’s down mutter,I am fine. Absolutely fine.Don’t you worry.
Think about it.
And by the way,I already promised one of our fellow bloggers that I would do something with a bunch of positive feelings. 🙂
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Yeah that’s true, though..
And good to hear. 🙂
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🙂
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So. Damn. Relatable.
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I know,right?:/
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Thank you so much for the reblog. 🙂
I am so sorry. I missed this completely. I was just going through this post because I posted something similar recently and came across your comment.
Apologies, again.:)
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i’m fine just missing my dad may his soul rest in peace 😞❤️❤️
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Oh man.I will pray,too.*tentative smile*
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Thank you so much for the reblog. 🙂
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